Cyber Bandwidth Monitor is a free application for Windows that allows you to compile information about the traffic going in and out of your connection. It displays that information in graph form.
The application works in the background, although it's possible to see what's happening by clicking the icon situated on the system tray. You can also use that icon to gain access to the program's other functions, like the presentation options, report generator, and email alerts.
All of this makes Cyber Bandwidth Monitor quite the comprehensive application.
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